iParenting: Is sexviding the new tech threat to kids?

In doing research on last week’s piece on teens and smartphones, I came across a Yahoo post on “sexviding.” Yes, you read that right. It looks as though some folks are already blaming the downfall of civilization as we know it on the iPhone 4.

With the preponderance of SMS- and MMS-enabled phones, incidents of “sexting” (or sending racy texts or photos of oneself) exploded, especially among the teenage set. Now, with the iPhone 4′s FaceTime capabilities, adults with a lot of time on their hands are dreaming up how teens are, of course, going to use this emergent technology for even more lascivious purposes. In this case, the concern is about the potential for sexviding, which is basically like sexting, but in live motion via vid chat.

The author of the Yahoo article does admit the idea is “paranoid,” but I can’t help but wonder why some people always have to imagine the worst in any new technology? After all, the article is reporting on an epidemic that hasn’t even taken hold yet.

Even if sexviding does take off at some point, in my opinion, the tools that the iPhone makes available wouldn’t really be the problem. Teens who have a strong base of values and a good sense of self-worth are less likely to engage in these types of activities, no matter the mode of distribution. Those who don’t will almost always find some way to act out, whether via the iPhone or some other means. So don’t blame the tech for causing the behavior; there may be more deep-rooted issues that need to be addressed.

So I don’t buy the argument that sexviding via the iPhone 4 could be a “high-tech threat” to our kids, at least not on a widespread cultural or sociopsychological level (and not any more so than any other communication tools available today). Having said that, however, I do agree with the author on one point: FaceTime could pose a security threat. It’s one thing for a young person to send X-rated content of himself or herself to others — which may be symptomatic of a larger problem about self-esteem — but it’s quite another to do it over Wifi, as is required by FaceTime right now. If the Wifi network used is unsecured, the content could wind up in strange hands and blasted all over the web within moments. That’s an extremely harsh consequence for what might be a single moment of a young person’s bad judgment.

As working adults, most of us know that we should never send messages over company servers that we don’t want our bosses to see. The same approach should be conveyed to kids who use FaceTime: As a general rule, never conduct a vid chat that you’re not comfortable with others witnessing.

What do you think? Will sexviding via FaceTime become the new teen cultural phenomenon/plague? Or is the whole idea the product of the overworked imaginations of hyperworried grown-ups? And what would you do if you caught your teen (or were caught by your parents) engaging in it?

Via: Yahoo Tech News

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Can apple do anything about it if they find see someone doing it and can they see it?

wtf no it is not going to be a problem with "sexviding" bc webcam has been out for years with computers and such so no it wont be a problem.... people shouldnt be so paranoid..got my iphone4 and i freaking love it!!:D

Not a Iphone user but very interesting article, thanks for the read !

I liked your article. Although I don't have any kids at all but I come from a great family myself and I compare sometimes to how my parents handled situations in their life with being me and my sister were kids. We were raised with good moral and strong base values. Yes I concur with you that if kids are raised with good moral, strong base of values and all that good stuff, and yes, they will highly unlikely to engage in these types of activities, no matter the mode of distribution is. But at the same time I also see that the time had changed since my parents raised us that time and today. Sometimes, a bad influence of a friend in school may spoil your kid a little. There is a saying that if you put a good mango in a basket of rotten mangoes, then that good mango will go bad soon. Same principle applies. I see it is very easy to lose focus in today's world with the other external factors which might influence kids around. For example, bad friends, cable tv, internet, books, etc. As a parent yes you can control the best you can but sometimes things can go out of hand. I wouldn't blame iPhone per say as a whole but I think the parents would need to understand and have more control to prevent their kids to lose focus by such external factors. It is not an easy task but that extra effort may be worth it. If you ask me, I wouldn't give my kid an iphone period. He can play with it sometime but it will not belong to him. I would like to make him engage more in reading great books, encyclopedias and good conversation with us as a parent and not sitting for hours in his room playing some video games.

The Iphone isn't the only phone. It seems like apple is the main target these days for people. The last time I checked the evo has it to and a couple others coming in the next few months. If kids are gonna do it, it wont be on the iphone. it will be on a cheaper phone and network. I stay in a middle to upper class neighborhood, my daughter is 14 and my niece is 13. The number of iphones in her school are very few. Out of all her friends, basketball and volleyball team mates, there is one other person. So to claim that apple will be to blame is bogus.

don't give them an iphone then

well... this been around already... cell phones already had video recording so theres no blame on iphones .. its just sad that teens do this tru cell phones... lmao

Yes, i believe this will be an issue. I don't know if you already know this or not, but, "sexviding" is already an issue. Many teenagers that i know, are getting little private "shows" from their girlfriends via "iChat" or "ooVoo". iPhone's capability of "Facetime" will only contribute to the act of sexviding. But then again, iPhone 4 is not to blame, the kid's morals are. :)