iParenting: Teens + smartphones = a good idea?

Last Thursday, a lot of new iPhone 4 users hit the scene. No doubt some of them were young adults, with parents in tow, to get on the iPhone train, refresh an older handset or replace a lost or broken device. But is that really the best thing? There’s been a lot of buzz recently over teens and cell phone use spanning everything from morality to safety.

Teens and phones have been a staple of American culture for decades. Those of us old enough to remember Marcia on The Brady Bunch gabbing on the line to girlfriends have those images etched into our brains. When cell phones went cheap and global, teens were there to snap up the technology and lead the vanguard of the newly birthed texting movement. In 2008, CBS found that 4 out of 5 teens had mobile phones. That number is sure to have risen since, as each year, more texting contests feature majority participation by teens competing for speed and accuracy. Last year’s LG U.S. National Texting Championship awarded a 15-year-old winner, Kate Moore, a $15,000 prize. Teary eyed, Moore said, “You’d never think a girl from Iowa would win something this big in New York.” (WSJ Blogs – Digits)  Well, I guess this thing is pretty big, Kate — maybe even bigger than you know. A Harris study released earlier this month showed that 47 percent of teens can text with their eyes closed!

Cell phone usage among this demographic has skyrocketed in recent years, partly due to the growing prevalence of smartphones. Slick apps, high-quality cameras, GPS, and video technology make smartphones a natural magnet for a group naturally wired to look for “cooler, faster, better.” But with teenagers so glued to their mobile tech, some troubling concerns are starting to be raised. According to a  Pew Research Center survey, teens are driving while texting in record numbers, with an alarming 26 percent admitting they text and drive. There are also other concerns about health risks. The Daily Green posted results of a Swedish study that looked at low-level radiation exposure from mobile devices. It found that people who started using them before the age of 20 were five times more likely to develop a rare brain cancer known as glioma.

As if health and safety issues weren’t enough, moral concerns plague parents of cell-toting teenagers. A joint study conducted by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy and CosmoGirl noted that a surprising 20 percent of teens and 33 percent of young adults have shared nude or semi-nude pictures of themselves online. Smartphones make this easier both technologically and logistically than ever before.

With all this disconcerting news, why would parents ever encourage or allow their kids to carry smartphones? Well, it seems there are positive effects of mobile technology too. Rapid Learning pointed to a surprising study done by Dr. Clare Wood of Coventry University, which found that kids who use “textism” — the abbreviated language of texting — show less difficulty than peers in spelling and understanding written language. Another recent Pew poll claims that smartphones can help bridge the digital divide between low-income minority students and higher-income white students, as lower-income kids can increasingly gain internet access through inexpensive handsets.

There are also more educational apps and mobile learning opportunities that are being developed. (Some teens are even starting to forego traditional “brick and mortar” colleges in favor of online universities, which are accessible on the go.) Some classrooms today are clearly torn over cell phones. Some use them creatively to stretch minds and encourage creative problem solving, while others chalk them up to distractions and ban them altogether.

Personally, I think mobile devices in themselves offer growth opportunities for young, developing minds. Have you ever witnessed a determined teen working out some tech problem with their device? Their tenacity and know-how is inspiring. Also, just owning and properly caring for this technological wonder might engender a little of that old-fashioned responsibility parents have been trying to instill for millennia. (Do we see any parallels to the honored institution of the teen owning their first car?)

What do you think? Are you a parent of a smartphone-using teen? Or do you forbid them for your kids? Parents, teens, or anyone else with a stake in the situation, let us know where you stand (or share your personal experience or wisdom) by commenting below.

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Late 20s? Ha! You're old. My youngest brother called me "one of the old guys" when I was 27 (he was 15 at the time). As for this issue, I can't weigh in yet because I haven't chewed on it enough. My oldest is only 3 and 1/2 so I have a little time before she starts begging for a phone. I'm a little concerned about low-level radiation interfering with child brain development, but at this point it's just a little disconcerting, not an alarm.

I think it's a terrible idea. Parent's should train their kids to behave by not giving them a smartphone. There is just too much junk that becomes easily accessible when a smartphone is given to them. They can have a dumbphone... from 1997... with black and white screen. If I sound like an old man, I'm not. I'm in my late 20's. Take that kiddies.

Why can't parents these days "grow up" and do their job? If a parent doesn't want their children to be sexting, be surfing porn on Safari, or anything else, they should train (not control) their kids to not do stuff like that.

I've been using a smartphone for years, and my parents don't care either way. Of course, I am very responsible, and not only that, I don't even come close to its fullest extent. When I had my 3G, I only had a few apps. Social(myspace, twitter, tumblr, facebook), all other were in some way educational. Word warp and a dictionary. And that was it. I think I'll do a little more with the iPhone 4 when I receive it, though. :D

My parents are pretty cool about my sister and I have smartphones. As long as we're not using it when we're out to dinner or spending quality time together, they don't mind us checking things online or playing games or texting. In fact, they usually ask us to check things out online for them when we don't have computer access...

I'm a career IT guy, immersed in tech most days of the week, so my dissenting view may seem odd and I'm sure to be a minority voice on this, but... Cell phones steal the independence & rationale from kids who carry them. Kids no longer have to mentally map out what they'll be doing for the remainder of the day or if they'll need something from someone else at some point in the day. Instead, they wander aimlessly off into the day, knowing that they're never more than a button-press away from their parents who'll swoop in and rescue them at the last minute. Well-meaning helicopter parents have allowed the media & marketing wizards to convince them that cell phones are a huge boon to kids' safety, but I really have to question the reasoning behind that. Our society has developed an incredibly cavalier & overzealous emphasis on pushing technology on kids but I believe kids need the time & opportunities to learn to interact in the REAL world & develop REAL interpersonal social skills before plunging headlong into the cyber world.

Where in the world can you rationalize the idea that there is a negative impact on teenagers social skills if they have a cell phone? There is absolutely no way to avoid technology in our era and making a connection and linking things like that is false.

Actually I started with my moms old iPhone but then it broke. I could upgrade but the $30 seems like an unnesseary expense to my parents. Well just at the last second AT&T dropped there prices and my parents thought $15 a month was reasonable and i returned my crappy feature phone for a shiny new 3GS. Then iPhone 4 released and I could have returned my 3GS but my parents thought I should be happy with what I got.

Very interesting post! Enjoyed reading it.